I know that a boi should be focused on pleasing his master, but as I'm still unowned (but actively looking), I am free to have fun with other men. I met up with a very cute 24y/o guy, who used both my mouth and my boi-hole, while I stayed locked.
My nub tried to engorge in my cage, and it hurt a bit when it tried to engorge fully. It couldn't of course, but it pulled on my boi-balls. Once I started focusing on his cock in my mouth, or focusing on the feeling in my boi-hole, I LOVED it! My nub leaked quite a lot, and I wasn't so desperately wanting to cum afterwards. I was still horny and loved being locked. I had no desire to unlock and cum, which I did before, I had an amazing amount of energy afterwards, and had no idea why.
As shown below, my nub is still safe and secure. I took it earlier today. I am comfy mostly, but I will still unlock tonight. Last time I did overnight too early, I had troubles. Naturally, I will stay good while unprotected, and will lock up again after I shower tomorrow morning.
Loving being good and protected,
Cody
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Cody,
ReplyDeleteI am severely concerned about you from that report. I think it is a misconception to think that while you are unattached or unowned, you are in any way free to have fun the way you describe, if you really want to be a good boi. From my pov, a good boi just does not give himself away that easily, acting like a slutty boi thereby, even while wearing his protector. In a way, it even ridicules any protection, leaving it without any true meaning, as such is simply inappropriate for even any wanting-to-be good boi imo. A protector does not make any boi a good boi as such, as his attitudes and actions also count, at least imo. And from my pov, you are at least at risk to set a very dangerous if not very wrong example for being a good boi.
Just focus absolutely on accomplishing your actual goal to identify a suitable Master for you, instead of giving in to actually meaningless adventures, hunting for joy on your side thereby, driven by your boi-horniness that you seemingly still cannot control even while being securely protected. On the one hand, it is for sure good that you seemingly lost interest in stimulating your nub during and after this adventurous encounter. But on the other hand, your action to seek and find easy but not meaningful sex might mark you as a slutty boi still, just regardless of your protection. If you really want to be a good boi, better avoid such, but keep looking even more intensely for a suitable and worthy Master for you instead, with your unfulfilled boi-horniness just more motivating you for that! Just to be unowned is no reason nor excuse for acting slutty! And no, from my pov, you are far from being free to do so as described by you in your report if you really want to be a good boi!
Nevertheless, improve (I know you can!) and stay good!
Roland
PS.: Again, from looking at the pic of you being protected, I doubt that you are able to stay protected with the shown protector for long-term. For short-term, like a photo-shoot or some hours, it might be ok, but for even several days in a row, let alone weeks, I do not think that it is possible neither healthy. And just btw, I think you should reshave the next given possibility to do so.
Roland,
DeleteI think I am mis-conceiving what I should be doing to be a good boi. I am looking for a Master and meeting a prospective Master today. Is using toys on my boi-hole a bad idea? I plan to improve, and be less slutty. I will try to improve.
I'm not sure what to do when it comes to my protector. What do you recommend I do? A longer one slips around and causes really bad chafing. No protector stays up at the base of my nub. A full belt protector is definitely a better option, but I can't afford one yet.
Cody,
Deleteusing toys on your boi-hole is no bad idea. I think it might even take some pressure away from you. However, do not overdo things.
For the shown device, all I can think of as a possible improvement for you, and also to add some comfort for wearing it, is this: get a string, band or anything, loop it around your waist, connect it to your protector, maybe on the rod on the base-ring that holds the cage-portion, and knot it tightly. That might be the closest you might get an impression about being protected in a full belt by now. And I hope such will work for you, even if your protector does not seem to fit you very well currently.
I am glad to read that you met a prospective Master for you today. How did it go?
Do not try to improve, but just improve!
Stay good!
Roland
Roland,
DeleteI will improve, I promise. I know I will still make mistakes, as I am human, but I will do better. Thanks for the clarification about toys.
I think the device is doing OK if I can forget that I am wearing it most of the time. The briefs that I am wearing seem to support it pretty well. Maybe wearing a jockstrap and putting a small hole in the waistband and tying the main pin to that would work?
I haven't met the prospective Master yet, as it is only 11am here, but I plan to meet him at 4pm today. I hope it goes well. I also have a 22y/o guy who also is interested in kh for me. He is more local than my possible Master. The possible plan is for them both to have a key each. This means that in an emergency, the younger guy will have a key accessible. The Master is about an hour's drive away. They are OK with this.
Cody
Cody,
DeleteI am not sure about the plan to damage your jockstraps. I rather think that it will not really work.
Also I do not think that giving two persons each a key for your protector is a good idea. What is each their benefit for that, to hold your key, btw? I understand about your reasoning, but I personally think, this is all just too complicated in real-life. But this is just my opinion. If it really works out for them and you, then all is ok. However, I doubt it. But I am not in their neither your shoes.
Best wishes for you for your meeting!
Stay good!
Roland
Roland,
DeleteI think you are probably right about the jockstraps, but my protector isn't causing any major problems. Most of the time I forget I have it on, and a few times I have had to check that it is still on!
I was thinking of them each having a key if I ever need to have absolutely no access to a key.
Staying good,
Cody